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10th July 2009

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How To Treat A Woman On A Date: The Basics

srsly:

sarahkristenn:

(via anthonymichaelrojas)

  1. Do not let more than 1 day go by without contacting her
  2. Be on time
  3. Open her car door
  4. Help her put her coat on
  5. Hold the door for her to enter/leave an establishment first
  6. Pull her chair out for her in the restaurant
  7. Order for her (Note – this does not mean tell her what she’s going to have for dinner. Have a conversation about what she wants and then when the waiter comes, order for her.)
  8. At the end of your date, don’t drive off until she’s safely inside

There is no way in HELL I am letting someone order for me. I stopped doing that at age 9, I’m certainly not starting now.

I actually agree with all of this<- Kaila.

  1. adropintheocean reblogged this from christ-follower
  2. plannedhappenstance reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    So, I was bored tonight, and completely out of ideas as to what to spend my time on. If I actually spent my time on what...
  3. pleasedrinkresponsibly reblogged this from and added:
    I thought it was just being polite. You feminist girls can go on putting on your own jackets and pulling out your own...
  4. cdq reblogged this from robot-heart
  5. slylittlebear reblogged this from singlebychoice and added:
    7.5 - Pay for dinner
  6. chelseanneal reblogged this from starsnatcher and added:
    it’s really not that hard to understand us girls :P
  7. fezmonkey reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    but thought I’d add my two cents. #7 is excessive, #1 depends on th level of communication
  8. kailamarie reblogged this from srsly and added:
    I actually agree with all of this
  9. vampiricjoker reblogged this from abeird
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  11. generallyspeaking reblogged this from jmek and added:
    Never. EVER. order for me. We may have a had a convo about what I want, but I change my mind at the VERY last second and...
  12. gottfried reblogged this from robot-heart
  13. deuts reblogged this from srsly and added:
    Sa lahat ng ka-OA-han! Let’s dissect it, shall we?...What 1 day? Before or after?
  14. amyh reblogged this from jmuffin and added:
    I agree with you Jamiee. I would feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable if someone did this stuff on a first date. Maybe some of...
  15. laterlizzy reblogged this from christ-follower
  16. jmuffin reblogged this from briannebott and added:
    maybe i’m just weird then, everyone seems to be pretty cool with this list, but most of these things would just make me...
  17. undertheporch reblogged this from phantombacons and added:
    thats sad that you think its unesscary to order for someone. thats what you call polite, the server asks what you are...
  18. dacoolkidj reblogged this from briannebott
  19. briannebott reblogged this from huntingofthesnark and added:
    I’d rather not number 7 thanks, other than that yeah cool, especially eight.
  20. huntingofthesnark reblogged this from phantombacons and added:
    I do most of these.
  21. phantombacons reblogged this from jmuffin and added:
    I think thats sweet - although with no.7 is not completely neccasary but I’d be okay with it. Alternatively you could...
  22. jmuffin reblogged this from mastodonstorm and added:
    bolded part is such a fucking rude thing to say. Who raised you? also, this list is all very polite and quaint, but...
  23. chatterboxsnails reblogged this from mastodonstorm
  24. msellay reblogged this from wishinghopingpraying
  25. katieschenk reblogged this from adamiss and added:
    if anyone wants to read the mess, they can click thru. All in all,...agree people...
  26. cherrycheeks reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  27. needahandmarissa reblogged this from myheartwillfly and added:
    personally i think this is sexist. wtf guys are not our slaves. this is nice and all, but noo.
  28. t-rotheavenger reblogged this from sarahkristenn and added:
    ugh. If you order for me, I will punch you in the face.
  29. nowwhat reblogged this from seriouslythough
  30. ardenashley reblogged this from seriouslythough and added:
    JESUS. Thank you. Not that I can’t manage on my own…but you know, sometimes it’s just nice to feel taken care of....
  31. seriouslythough reblogged this from baxterp2
  32. magnificentjay reblogged this from skylarparker and added:
    i have never done any of these things but still manage to get laid…i must be special
  33. soulier reblogged this from sarahkristenn
  34. bledintothesea reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  35. thatgirlallison reblogged this from feistyred and added:
    adamiss:jgh:ohfortheloveofdog:placeholdertext:hotpotatohot:anthonymichaelrojas:...Sorry, I...
  36. meagansphilosophy reblogged this from srsly
  37. czandjm reblogged this from iseeellis and added:
    inside CZ: Yes, please. :)
  38. lalanii reblogged this from jmek and added:
    Do not let more than 1 day go by without contacting her Be on time Open her car door Help her put her coat on Hold the...
  39. megmess reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    so this is floating around everyone’s tumblr and i think i’m the only chick who has zero complaints with this list. i...
  40. iseeellis reblogged this from sarahmc and added:
    note was becoming...crazy overly-indented clusterfuck. Text that looks like this is...
  41. placeholdertext reblogged this from sarahmc and added:
    Ahaha! Also, communicating (the first one) in itself doesn’t bother me, but the fact that it was listed as a rule does....
  42. robot-heart reblogged this from cwags and added:
    Random Musings Score!
  43. goldenrat1o reblogged this from airport and added:
    I completely agree with airport’s answers. 4 and 7 are an absolute no. Number 1 doesn’t matter nearly as much as this...
  44. cwags reblogged this from jgh and added:
    Good Lord…the solution to this seems fairly simple. Just fucking communicate like normal humans. Guys, if you have been...
  45. thecurvature reblogged this from sarahmc and added:
    BWAHAHAHAHAHA. Also, taking a look at the huge number of notes on this … am I the only one who has begun to suspect that...
  46. sarahmc reblogged this from thepoliticalpartygirl and added:
    Upon re-reading these handy tips, I realize it’s good advice re: How To Take Care Of The Toddler You’re Babysitting.
  47. thepoliticalpartygirl reblogged this from jgh and added:
    Next time I’m on a date, I’ll open the car door, order for him, help him put his coat on, and pull out his chair… all...
  48. robot-heart-politics reblogged this from sarahmc and added:
    dog: How To Treat A Woman On A Date: The Basics HA!
  49. abilly reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    I know people are throwing a fit about this, but… I really wouldn’t mind a date doing any of these for me. I can...
  50. airport reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    no duh sure no duh okay NO do
  51. jgh reblogged this from feistyred and added:
    multicultural feminism from...global perspective...rant...
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  53. feistyred reblogged this from baxterp2 and added:
    To add to Mo’s point, when I majored in gender studies in college,...was not to talk about...
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  57. sarahmc reblogged this from jgh and added:
    JGH, you should know by now that any push-back against antiquated gender norms is perceived as murderous rage.
  58. fieryholocaust reblogged this from baxterp2 and added:
    You are awesome. And so right. I would...could get someone
  59. jgh reblogged this from baxterp2 and added:
    OK, perhaps “seething” was an overstatement! But yeah, I’d...guy who tried to “put my
  60. baxterp2 reblogged this from adamiss and added:
    Really? You’d be seething with rage if...man you were dating called you or texted you or...
  61. jgh reblogged this from feistyred and added:
    ridiculously mad. 2)...don’t need “the whole world...know”...
  62. stripesoftiger reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  63. isworeidneverliveinwisconsin reblogged this from mercurypdx and added:
    I used to be “I can do things myself asshole” too. Then I realized, guys are just trying to be nice not patronizing....
  64. feistyred reblogged this from adamiss and added:
    Sometimes you people get ridiculously mad for no reason. Back when I was an idealistic 20 year old feminist, I made a...
  65. arp1023 reblogged this from starsnatcher
  66. adamiss reblogged this from jgh and added:
    Here’s my one rule; because even when things don’t work out, it means they weren’t supposed to: Be Yourself (queue this...
  67. mercurypdx reblogged this from jgh
  68. jgh reblogged this from sarahmc and added:
    I would be seething with rage if the guy did any of the above, besides being on time. Treat me like a human being, not a...
  69. sarahmc reblogged this from placeholdertext and added:
    Order for her!? Help me put my coat on!?
  70. placeholdertext reblogged this from hotpotatohot and added:
    Bolded words are mine. Where’s the part on the list where you’re respectful and not patronizing? Treat her for who she...
  71. sheilavallejos reblogged this from themarcus
  72. keepsgettingbetter reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  73. morenewsfromnowhere reblogged this from drinkyourjuice and added:
    Do people still live by this load of shit? I don’t know about the rest of the world after reading that list, but I’m all...
  74. hotpotatohot reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  75. thecoloredpicture reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    agree. also when talking, look at her, make eye contact do...chest. ever. (chested or
  76. themarcus reblogged this from p4nd4b34r and added:
    order for her? should i brush her teeth for her and do her hair too?
  77. mmmariaaa reblogged this from hullochristine and added:
    Haha. I’m sorry guys, I’m a traditional kind of girl and my boy does this all the time- not just on dates. Chivalry is...
  78. cupcakesandbutterflies reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  79. receiver reblogged this from drinkyourjuice and added:
    think it’s pretty damn rude...a gal, unless you’re in another country, and she doesn’t...
  80. threetruthsforeverystory reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    you been all these years? :o
  81. gracenmichelle reblogged this from srsly and added:
    AGREE AGREE AGREE! Don’t do that, guys. It makes us feel stupid. 1 and 2 are good. 3, 4, and 6 I could do without. 5 is...
  82. myheartwillfly reblogged this from christ-follower and added:
    If only this was realistic.
  83. christ-follower reblogged this from mixedupmemory
  84. hullochristine reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    Why do you have to be...treat a woman like this? Shouldn’t you always treat a woman like...
  85. loveispatient reblogged this from philippians4 and added:
    I’m with you. I can order my own meal…
  86. philippians4 reblogged this from mixedupmemory and added:
    i agree with all of these except for #7. i am perfectly capable of ordering my own meal thank you very much. gentlemen...
  87. bebetterguys reblogged this from drinkyourjuice and added:
    However, others don’t share our appreciation of chivalry.
  88. bebetterguys reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    BBG believes wholeheartedly in basic points of etiquette, especially
  89. omgitsbiancaa reblogged this from jmek
  90. bertalikewhoa reblogged this from srsly and added:
    This list will pretty much ASSURE you will get a second date.
  91. vela reblogged this from choppinkarate and added:
    And order a bunch of appetizers. Mmm. MMM!
  92. drinkyourjuice reblogged this from srsly and added:
    The fact that this...how people think a ‘typical relationship’ should look is why
  93. choppinkarate reblogged this from vela and added:
    here you go guys, ill give you the bare basics. fuck treating women like its medieval times. this
  94. yousoldtheworld reblogged this from vela and added:
    Um. I don’t need any of this shit. It’s a nice thought or whatever, but as long as you don’t get mad at me for my...
  95. mixedupmemory reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  96. crazyalwayswins reblogged this from becomingbrina and added:
    Oh my dod. Heads would roll, bitches. Change that shiz to read, “Let her order first, period. And whatever you do, don’t...
  97. vela reblogged this from alexisnoelle and added:
    I don’t care about having my chair pulled out for me. There should be another basic rule that says to be nice to other...
  98. abeird reblogged this from slob-without-a-name and added:
    I think if the guy was sincere about this and not just trying to get me in bed, It’d be the greatest thing in the world....
  99. becomingbrina reblogged this from srsly and added:
    yeah ordering for me pretty much guarantees that you won’t get a second date, and there’s a distinct possibility that...
  100. colormelauren reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  101. slob-without-a-name reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    guy ever treated me like this, I’d kick his ass! I’d be so insulted.
  102. tsunamis reblogged this from sarahkristenn and added:
    Cue HOLY EFFING SHIT I HAVE TO DATE AGAIN freakout.
  103. ikswoklabycats reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    BOYS: Rule #1 is Rule #1
  104. jmek reblogged this from srsly
  105. sarahmary reblogged this from srsly and added:
    Yeah no, no ordering for this girl. I can do it on my own.
  106. alexisnoelle reblogged this from srsly
  107. -hollowwords reblogged this from jesuschrist- and added:
    IF A GUY ORDERED FOR ME I’D BE PISSED. DON’T DO THAT. NOT THAT I EVEN GO ON DATES.
  108. jesuschrist- reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  109. mastodonstorm reblogged this from skylarparker and added:
    It’s amazing how much of this would be considered creepy nowadays. :/
  110. kissingstars reblogged this from wishinghopingpraying and added:
    One thing I don’t understand is why guys place the importance on “The Date”. Why not do this all the time? I think men...
  111. skylarparker reblogged this from sarahkristenn and added:
    The only thing I wouldn’t want a guy to do is order for me. It would make me think that the guy thought of me as...
  112. overcastgirl reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  113. elloirs reblogged this from hopetimist and added:
    oh i hate pretty much everything on this list. like what, am i PATHETIC? i hate when people order for me, EURGH, I HAVE...
  114. singlebychoice reblogged this from oscuridad and added:
    CHIVALRY AND MANNERS ARE ADMIRABLE QUALITIES THAT ALL WOMEN APPRECIATE.
  115. wishinghopingpraying reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    I disagree with number 7. I can...myself but everything else seems good.
  116. hopetimist reblogged this from starsnatcher and added:
    Gah. I feel the need to voice how much I disapprove of people opening doors for me and helping with coats etc etc etc....
  117. sarahkristenn reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas
  118. jenniferocious reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:
    well isn’t that nice!...this really happen? lol.
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